Jabir b. He was from the Ansar, and accepted Islam as a young boy. His father was the famous warrior Abdullah b. He was also blessed to live an extremely long life.
Qur'an, Hadith and Scholars:Sexuality
Marriage And Sexual Intercourse
Honorable teacher, it gives me pleasure to address you a question that we are often asked. It was so confusing to bring answer to it. Such as asking her to suck his member or to suck her sex. Excuse me for this form, but the question is very pressing, and may Allah reward you. All praise is due to Allah, the Lord of the Worlds.
There are no particular rules and laws either in foreplay or in intercourse. The only laws and rules are the ones reached by the lovers by mutual and often unspoken understanding. Whatever is pleasing and satisfying to both the husband and the wife is right and proper; and whatever is mutually displeasing is wrong. The only limitation to this general rule would be any Shariah rule which goes against the wishes of the husband or the wife.